'They came back with $2,000 in an envelope': Parents bribe adult son to attend sister's wedding despite toxic brother's attendance, it backfires

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    Posted by u/Ok_Tailor2709 13 hours ago AITA for leaving my sister's wedding but keeping the bribe I was paid to attend?
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    My brother is an made my life and has since I can remember. I grey rocked him scsoon as I understood the concept and have been NC with him since he moved out of my parent's house.
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    My sister was getting married. I checked to see if he was invited. He was. I RSVP'd my regrets. My sister and parents came by to talk me into attending. I said no.
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    They promised me that he would be on his best behavior. I said no. They begged. I said no.
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    They asked if there was anything they could do to convince me to go. I said that if they gave me $1,000 each that I would return if he left me alone. They said no. I said good day.
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    They came back with $2,000 in an envelope.
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    I was at the wedding venue with my wife talking to my parents when my brother arrived. He came right over and called me a slur for a homosexual. My dad's head just dropped.
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    I took my wife's hand and we went out for a night paid for by my parents and sister. We were already dressed up so we had a fancy night out with our phones off.
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    My parents and sister are furious at my brother. He is mad because my dad told him that he is a child that can't control himself. My brother is mad at me for being a baby and not being able to take a joke.
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    I really don't care. $2,000 isn't bablot of money. But it is enough to sting. Now maybe they will listen when I say I do not want to be around him.
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    My mom however is mad at me for taking the money. She seems to think I was being paid to out up with his abuse. I have tried explaining that it was more of a bond on his behaviour. She won't listen. AITA for taking the money and leaving?
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    FitOrFat-1999. 13 hr. ago NTA. Did your brother leave you alone? No. Was he on his best behavior? no. You kept your end of the bargain. They didn't.
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    And I guess we know the parent who enabled your brother all these years. "[Mom] seems to think I was being paid to put up with his abuse." **, Mom.
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    snootnoots 12 hr. ago • Yup. OP got paid to give him a chance, and did. He blew that chance the moment he walked in.
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    embopbopbopdoowop . 12 hr. ago edited 11 hr. ago "I said that if they gave me $1,000 each that I would return if he left me alone." He didn't leave you alone. You were there and prepared to stay but they didn't fill their end of the deal.
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    They banked on him. behaving. He's the one who cost them the money. They should have graciously accepted your decline. NTA
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    Melodic_Ad_8360 12 hr. ago The deal was $1000 each and he leaves you alone. He didn't leave you alone. Maybe your parents need to collect some cash from your brother since he couldn't keep his mouth shut for one evening. Solid NTA
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    space_coyote_86 · 11 hr. ago My brother is mad at me for being a baby and not being able to take a joke. What joke? I didn't see any joke NTA If your mom wants her $2000 back she should ask your brother.
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    Beneficial_Syrup_869. 12 hr. ago Why did they want you there, out of curiosity? I assume to take the pics and look like a happy family for everybody to see? NTA, you told them you'd give it back if he didn't say anything, he said something. They rolled those dice not you. Also, your brother!
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    PerfectLeadership212. 12 hr. ago NTA. The bribe was to go to the wedding, not stay, so technically you complied and regardless - of that, your idiot brother was supposed to be on his best behaviour... and if that's his best behaviour... that's just sad.

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